Many women have hunted for the elusive "Mr.or Ms. Right" for quite some time now, or since time immemorial. But, how do women know if they will succeed in the dating game, or are they putting their safety at risk?


Here are some clues that a woman can take to get the most out of her dating life without putting her safety at risk.

Pay attention to your heart and intuition.


If one's intuition tells her she isn't making a connection with a particular person, don't force it. Instead, trust your instincts and gently and swiftly get rid of them. But, of course, dating does not entail jumping the bones of every person who expresses an interest in you. Also, remember it is not good to settle for something less.

Believe in yourself and self-worth.


This is in line with the gut instinct advice. If a person seems to be too good to be true, chances are they are not suitable for you. Don't be fooled by sugary promises. Learn how to psychoanalyze a little bit. It can't hurt to run a background check in this technological age.


Feel the earth sway beneath your feet. No, I'm not asking you to dance or anything. What I mean is, keep your feet on the ground. Don't be swept away by the euphoria too quickly. Taking your time will help protect you from being hurt if the guy or girl is not what you expected.  


People still lie, you know. Single dating is not something that happens overnight. Be mindful of your surroundings and the people around you.


Never succumb to peer pressure. Don't be swayed if your roommates or friends know you are dating online and advise you to single out someone you believe does not meet your standards. They can have that guy or girl if they want them, right? Single dating is not supposed to be a group decision.


Being overly desperate for a relationship will ruin the fun of single dating. For example, if you've reached the point where your relationship is about to end, in other words, someone is getting dumped, but you're still doing many things to patch things up, you may be desperate. Single dating is simply that: single dating. For Heaven's sake, if you thought of him as the future father of your children, but you're just a fling for him, you're not on the same wavelength. Get out of that relationship as soon as possible! You are wasting your time!


If you've been aiming for that long-term relationship, here are a few fool-proof tips on how to spot who's NOT the man or woman.


1. They are highly untrustworthy and promise to call then don't.


2. You have not met his close circle of friends and family.


3. A future together is never mentioned.


4. They immediately want to throw you into their bed.



With these things embedded in your brain and you are armored with a good presence of mind and a cautious attitude, you'll be ready for the delights of single dating. Make them swoon over you!