Why are most women attracted to the dirty-looking Lotharios that their mothers and fathers have warned them not to get involved in?

Is it because these men have natural good looks and scorching bad boy qualities? Or is it just lousy psychology: women don't know what's good for them?

Believe it or not, there is an aura that bad boys exude that some women find utterly irresistible.

It feels so good to be a jerk. Or, in this case, being involved with someone terrible is so beneficial. There is, for one thing, adventure. Also, some people are engrossed in their fantasy movie, or romantic novel that being together or involved with an unscrupulous guy is simply irresistible. These sentiments appear to echo in both the book and film versions of the Bridget Jones saga. 

So, why would a woman who already has her gentlemanly mate look for another? Did Darcy find something appealing in a devilish guy? Although the latter turns out to be cruel and manipulative. While the other is so direct and sometimes a little uptight. So, who should a befuddled woman pick?

It's a known fact that women adore the minor flaws found in men. Some do it because they enjoy drama. Most women get their juices flowing when they are in a relationship with an evil man. A date with them is unpredictably unpredictable. They could be out on a nice cozy dinner one minute and making out in a dark street corner the next.

A date with straight men, on the other hand, could be lovely, simple, conventional, and unsurprising. So what happens after a quiet dinner? Perhaps a conversation, followed by more conversation and a walk. It's cozy, safe, and occasionally even romantic. Some people, however, find such a scenario boring.

A date or a relationship with all of the bad qualities associated with men can sometimes be an excellent topic for a conversation with women the next day. Women are obsessed with nitpicking every gory detail about their misbehaving men, how they have been bad, and so on. On the other hand, women enjoy talking about how good their husbands have been in bed.

Bad boys are often referred to as wolves or foxes. There could be a reason for this phrase. Both of these animals are predators. Women should not be in such difficult situations, but they do. Believe it or not, sexual opportunity and excitement attract women, or at the very least attract them to the waiting arms of a manly predator.

A date or a relationship with all of the bad qualities associated with men can sometimes be an excellent topic for a conversation with women the next day. Women are obsessed with nitpicking every gory detail about their bad men, what they have done, and so on. On the other hand, some women enjoy talking about how good their husbands have been in bed.

However, specific facts cannot be overlooked. There is and should be no justification for bad behavior. Some men are merely insensitive, and no amount of patience, hope, wishing, or dreaming can make up for it. Please keep in mind that men like this are not and may not be sincerely in love with the women in their lives. 

They may be possibly more in love with themselves than with anyone else, believe it or not. So try not to fall for their declarations of love for you as much as possible. His I-love-yous may be his way of getting what he wants with you, and there is a good chance of this happening.

All in all, dating bad men is suitable only for dating. Adventure, sexual or otherwise, is good for the short term. However, long-term relationships require mutual trust and respect; a little kinkiness also wouldn't hurt at all.