When You Don't Know What to Say on a Date, Here are Three Tips That Can Help You Out.

You're dating a stunning woman or man who is shy or uncommunicative. You've previously discussed your hobbies, families, and occupations, and nothing else comes to mind, and they are not assisting you (that's what you think).

Starting with a bit of chit-chat is one of the most acceptable methods to have a decent, healthy, and wholesome conversation with your date. 

A small chat will provide you a basic idea of their likes and dislikes, as well as what they'd want to talk about and what they'd instead leave alone. 

You can share your similar likes and dislikes after the small talk has given you a rough notion. But it's that minute of silence that gets to you. 

Those can be some horrible moments. 

The following are the keys to avoiding or overcoming these problematic situations:

1. Compliment Them

Most people are apprehensive about meeting new people. 

I used to be a super bashful person, and I still am a bit. However, when you think about it, Shyness is just a fear of being hated or rejected in some way by others. It's natural for us to desire to fit in. So try to let your date know that you like them by making a compliment. Find something that you find attractive about them, whether their lifestyle or personality. Your date will become more confident and open to sharing their beliefs, and their bashfulness won't be a problem for a flowing discussion.

2. Posing open-ended questions

To develop a foundation for effective communication, the way you ask questions is critical. Practical questions lead to greater awareness and knowledge. However, knowing when to ask which questions are the art of inquiring.

"Why" and "how" questions are two of my favorites. These can be used frequently without becoming obnoxious. Your date will sense that you are interested in what they have to say and allow them to elaborate on their responses.

You should proceed with caution speaking or discussing topics that may cause them to become irritated.

3. Listen, listen, and listen. I'm Talking to you, MEN!

Many men lose interest or turn the conversation back to themselves when the woman starts talking about her favorite topics (feelings, family, relationships, friends, and work). Unfortunately, this most prevalent blunder is a common mistake many males make regularly.

They also enjoy exchanging jokes and anecdotes and playing one-upmanship, and boasting. That is not acceptable!!!

Allow HER to have her own opinions while you maintain your own. Men frequently believe that they must either abandon their values or fight with women over their ideals to attract a woman. Unfortunately, both tactics are doomed to fail.

She's not there to hear about your hero's "qualities," but to have a good time with you.