It's no surprise that both men and women rely on lying to some extent. However, they do it in another way and for different purposes.

Most people, especially women, say they want their partners to be sincere all the time. Is this possible? Can a person keep a relationship up and running if they are telling the truth 100% of the time?


Imagine you have invited your new girlfriend to your place to sleep over for the first time. You made a significant effort to clean your home from top to bottom. You are proud of the job you have done cleaning, and ask your partner what she thinks of the place. She says, "It is a little outdated, and something smells funky in here." Oh boy!


The two of you get through this uncomfortable point, then by some miracle, you start kissing one another, but you make a joke about the size of your manhood, and instead of hearing the most common reply: "hey, relax, size doesn't matter," she tells you that her ex was quite massive. Oops, that's one joke you should have kept to yourself.


Everything would be fantastic if she had said two little white-lies, but now you will have a complex about your manhood and home. Lying can be perhaps the ideal way of keeping your relationship solid.


So if you want to keep your woman happy and continue getting sex, you are going to have to learn to twist the truth – and bend it persuasively. The catch is knowing what gets your woman's gears churning and do that.


1. Never bring up your sexual history, especially if it was positive. If your girlfriend asks how good your ex was, you can tell a white lie if necessary. Let's say it wasn't all that great. Never bring up her name. Even if what you're saying isn't flattering, it'll have a negative impact. Bringing up your old girlfriend will let your new woman know that you're still thinking about her.


2. Let her know you have never seen a more lovely woman than her. Every woman has something beautiful, sensual, and appealing about her, and letting her know that you think so will make her more confident, wilder, and passionate. But, if she asks you about something you don't like about her appearance, never, ever tell her. You better lie your ass off! But, if you are an idiot, then, by all means, go for the truth, and let's see how far that gets you.


3. Everybody knows that women have a more practical side than most men. So please respect her sensibility and avoid making offensive comments about other people (especially her family.) You will lose points every time if she finds you insensitive. So instead, use your common sense and avoid hurting your woman's feelings, even if it means telling a small white lie now and then.


Lying, in general, is a horrible thing to do. When it comes to women, however, you don't have an option. The white lies are harmless and serve as reassurance now and then. Therefore, It's okay to tell a person what they want to hear from time to time to spare their feelings, in this one guy's opinion. But I could be wrong. The Bible does say, "the truth is the light."